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We talked about sex on the phone and made her laugh a lot but when I ask her to meet she says "Maybe not", or "No". She even tells me she gets turn on watching porn movies. What do I do? How do i get her out? I've never faced this kind of dilemma.
 

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I'd just say hey I aint into this perpetual phone talk relationship, either we go out on a date or I move on and look for something else.
That draws your line in the sand and lets her know where you stand. If she doesn't agree then cut her off and move on.
Least this way you take your shot at getting laid. Send her a **** pic, if you have a nice Johnson that might be enough to sway her if she hasn't been laid in awhile. At this point you really don't care anymore, she either steps up or steps aside.
 
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We talked about sex on the phone and made her laugh a lot but when I ask her to meet she says "Maybe not", or "No". She even tells me she gets turn on watching porn movies. What do I do? How do i get her out? I've never faced this kind of dilemma.
Stop talking to her on the phone! Let her get in touch with you. when she does set up a proper date (time place day). If she says no, tell her you’re busy and have to go but if she changes her mind to get in touch.

move on and go live your life.
 

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I've experienced a tease like this. We'd talk about sex positions and **** like that but she never followed through. Always made up some bs excuse. She came on to me initially at a party and we messed around so I couldnt accept that she didnt want to have sex with me so I pressed on. It's a hard pill to swallow that some of these bitches Just. Want. Attention. You just have to do what @KindredSpiritzz said and let her know if you wanted phone sex, you'd call a 1-900 number. She'll probably say okay and you guys won't talk for awhile but if she really wanted to sleep with you, she'll hit you up. But if not, then she wont. Either way, lay the law down and move on from her. She's already leading you on and wasting your time.
 

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I'd just say hey I aint into this perpetual phone talk relationship, either we go out on a date or I move on and look for something else.
That draws your line in the sand and lets her know where you stand. If she doesn't agree then cut her off and move on.
Least this way you take your shot at getting laid. Send her a **** pic, if you have a nice Johnson that might be enough to sway her if she hasn't been laid in awhile. At this point you really don't care anymore, she either steps up or steps aside.
have you ever tried sending a pic of your johnson to girls and did it work? I've never have. mine johnson is small and fat.
 

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I'd just say hey I aint into this perpetual phone talk relationship, either we go out on a date or I move on and look for something else.
That draws your line in the sand and lets her know where you stand. If she doesn't agree then cut her off and move on.
Least this way you take your shot at getting laid. Send her a **** pic, if you have a nice Johnson that might be enough to sway her if she hasn't been laid in awhile. At this point you really don't care anymore, she either steps up or steps aside.
Yea. I'm talking to the two women from OLD still. That hot 50 year old MILF keeps talking to me but then wishy washy on meeting. She's older and more mature so I'll have to be more subtle and just ask her if she wants to keep talking we need to meet.
 

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So, no special tricks from the game that can help me seduce her?
ya bro, just give her a "false time constraint" and "neg" her
that always gets them.
 

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have you ever tried sending a pic of your johnson to girls and did it work? I've never have. mine johnson is small and fat.
All the time, that's usually how I seal the deal. Now mind you it depends on the woman and how your talk/text is going, you can't do that with every single woman. Usually im the perfect gentleman in text and never say anything sexual but I have notice at some point the women will usually make a sexual innuendo or comment first and that's the signal I can steer the conversation towards talking about sex. At some point i'll ask to see her boobs and most times they will accommodate me. Then I just got to pick the right moment to drop Mr Johnson on her.
If i have to drive any distance to meet them then i dont care as much and i want to make sure she's at least open to sex so i flirt first and push the sex topic harder, weeds them out faster and i waste less time. I was pretty well blessed down there so if they are at all horny or its been awhile since they got laid their little hamster wheel starts turning and they talk themselves into first date sex before we even meet. Of course it helps im somewhat decent looking too. I don't know, works for me, havent had one drop me yet cause they were offended.
 

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So, no special tricks from the game that can help me seduce her?
Sure there is!

Its called telling her "come over and fvck me and lets make our own porn to watch later".

Then you go find someone else if she isnt a hoe and just wants to fvck. If she doesnt come over, you block her along with the tempation of EVER reaching out to her again.

Its a pretty simple process.
 

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We talked about sex on the phone and made her laugh a lot but when I ask her to meet she says "Maybe not", or "No". She even tells me she gets turn on watching porn movies. What do I do? How do i get her out? I've never faced this kind of dilemma.
Things are simple, she either wants to have sex with you or not. You can't get her out. You can just say:
"Hey, I'm a little more free Saturday night, let's go out for a drink." or "Hey, come over and I'll put my d1ck in your a$$."
The result is the same.
If she says yes, you can bang her, if not, move on.
 

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Things are simple, she either wants to have sex with you or not. You can't get her out. You can just say:
"Hey, I'm a little more free Saturday night, let's go out for a drink." or "Hey, come over and I'll put my d1ck in your a$$."
The result is the same.
If she says yes, you can bang her, if not, move on.
If you haven't met her yet its harder. You have to make her comfortable that what she sees in the pictures is whats going to show up at her door looking to bang her. Women get cat fished too. If shes attracted to your pictures and feels confident the guy in those pictures is the one that will be showing up then she's more apt to be DTF on a first meeting.

I have a first date tomorrow night, chick an hour away. We been talking about 2 months now cause i havent had time to slip her in the rotation yet. We've talked sex, she's seen mr johnson, she knows i expect sex by the 2nd date tops and she's all primed to get boned even if she's not consciously aware of it yet. She masturbates every night before bed, likes anal and should be easy pickings but of course theres never a sure thing when it comes to women so we'll see.
 

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Things are simple, she either wants to have sex with you or not. You can't get her out. You can just say:
"Hey, I'm a little more free Saturday night, let's go out for a drink." or "Hey, come over and I'll put my d1ck in your a$$."
The result is the same.
If she says yes, you can bang her, if not, move on.
I disagree. Sometimes girls test you. If she tests you, you have to pass the test to lay her. It's not that simple. It sounds like you don't have much experience with girls.
 

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Busy to meet up but keeps talking to you when you call, that means shes wants an orbiter that provides her with none sexual attention. She might change her mind if you asking her out properly to an expensive dinner. But fcking you is not her priority. Essentially she knows she can keep you and your attention to her by not fcking you.

Trick is to get her out to a first date. But with your rapport, when she essentially don't view you as fck material, beta orbiter instead, I don't see a point here.
 

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good reply, quoting the standout things that resonate with my experiences.
never say anything sexual but I have notice at some point the women will usually make a sexual innuendo or comment first
I was pretty well blessed down there so if they are at all horny or its been awhile since they got laid their little hamster wheel starts turning and they talk themselves into first date sex before we even meet.
havent had one drop me yet cause they were offended.
 

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Either she's genuinely a porn addict (possibility, although not quite a remote one) or she's just baiting you. Either ghost her or bait her also, your call dude. I personally would text someone who intends to meet up.
 

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She isn't interested in that with you. Move on.
It appears that the OP has yet to met her in real life.. therefor, the 'one shoe fits all' bot responses might not apply.

Other reasons she may not meet in person could be because she's.....

already involved
posted an older photo (she knows the OP is out of her league)
married
posted a fake photo and is physically undesirable (meeting in person will eliminate any future attention)

Judging by her phone behavior (no matter her actual reason) I'm thinking that she's not worth any further investment. Sounds like you've exhausted most options. If you want to give her one more opportunity, it's time to play hardball. Say something like... "I'm not interested in speaking to a 1-900 girl. If you're as real as I am, then we should meet in person." Say nothing more. Let her respond.

Keep in mind that even if she accepts the idea of meeting in person, ... it's likely that she could be nothing like you imagined or (judging by her phone behavior) she'll be more prone to flaking.
 
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