You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If you haven't met her yet is she a throwout from one of your pals or a MySpace slvt?guitaronfire411 said:I have yet to meet her but this seems like a major red flag. She's only 20, too.
So she eats pvssy, big whoop wanna fight about it?Red flag #2 is she is super sexual and seems to be bisexual, having a relationship a few months ago with another girl.
Are you going on a deep sea dive with this b!tch? I assume you mean Inspector Clouseau from the Pink Panther pictures. If she's so fvcking hot just have a threeway with her then broom her off. You planning on marrying this slvt?She is incredibly attractive but I am concerned that she is hiding some things from me. How can I find out more without becoming DJ Cousteau?