"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl Doesn't Know Her Name

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OK, I noticed something very odd about my conversations with a blonde girl I've been getting to know. She introduced herself to me as "Sheila" at the beginning of the week. I repeated her name, to make sure it was right. I assumed I said it correctly, as she did not correct me, and I'm certain I heard her correctly. Anyway, I've talked to her a few times the past couple of days during seminar breaks, and she always responds when I say that name.

However, the seminar leader has been calling her "Sarah." And another gal in class says she is Sarah. I asked the blonde gal why the seminar leader calls her "Sarah" and not "Sheila."

"Because that's my name!" she screams at me.

I was very confused at that point because I had called her by the wrong name many times in the past couple days, and she has never corrected me. But now she gets mad when I get her name right?!?

Isn't that bizarre? What's up with that?!?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lol, good idea. Actually, she has a tough time relaxing around me so I could see that backfiring.

The last time I spoke with her after seminar, she just had this dazed expression, and a bunch of spittle stuck in both corners of her mouth. It's just been odd, man.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, get the job done and build some rapport with this girl. A few more odd moments and it's time to move on. Engage her in a fun and relaxed conversation. Get her number if you haven't, and work from there.
 
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