"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl dilemma

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I'll try and keep this short:

Went out Friday night alone.

Ended up getting very friendly with a girl in the bar who then proceeded to come on really strong.
Bit of making out etc but she explained that she was in the process of coming out of a tricky relationship.

She was with a group of friends who all seemed nice and friendly. Got chatting to one of the girls there and said "I know this is a bit cheeky but if I asked would you give me your number".

She says "well, yes it is a bit cheeky"

So I say "Look, no problem, you just seemed like a nice person etc"

She then proceeds to give me her number anyway.

I text the original girl I had met on Saturday and she confirms that she is not really interested in hooking up at the moment because of her situation - that's fine - I wished her all the best.

My question is: How to proceed with Girl 2......should I proceed with girl 2......obviously they are friends and it will be mentioned. Is it a bit unethical or should I not worry.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TED
So what's up?

RENISE
Eh.

TED
Great. Great.

So listen, uh, I was wondering if maybe you
wanted to go to the prom you know, with
me.

Renise looks unenthused.

TED
...Or NOT... It's no big deal, whatever I mean, if you
want.

RENISE
See, the thing is, I heard a rumor that
this guy I like was gonna ask me.

TED
Uh-huh.

RENISE
Yeah, so...I'm gonna wait and see what
happens there...But that sounds great,
yeah.

Ted nods, confused.

TED
Okay.

So is that a yes or a no?

RENISE
I think I was very clear, Ted. If
everything else falls apart, maybe.

Renise throws down her butt and storms off.

TED
I'm gonna hold you to that.

(Opening scene from Something About Mary which the OP bases his approach on, disqualifying himself as "cheeky").
 
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drellum

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bigneil said:
TED
So what's up?

RENISE
Eh.

TED
Great. Great.

So listen, uh, I was wondering if maybe you
wanted to go to the prom you know, with
me.

Renise looks unenthused.

TED
...Or NOT... It's no big deal, whatever I mean, if you
want.

RENISE
See, the thing is, I heard a rumor that
this guy I like was gonna ask me.

TED
Uh-huh.

RENISE
Yeah, so...I'm gonna wait and see what
happens there...But that sounds great,
yeah.

Ted nods, confused.

TED
Okay.

So is that a yes or a no?

RENISE
I think I was very clear, Ted. If
everything else falls apart, maybe.

Renise throws down her butt and storms off.

TED
I'm gonna hold you to that.

(Opening scene from Something About Mary which the OP bases his approach on, disqualifying himself as "cheeky").
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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