"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl didn't answer my text message

ready123

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Kuwi said:
I said OMG, I just saw something that reminded me of you. I said this at around 2:00 P.M. thursday.
first of all, that's a good line to use. it's good for creating intrigue (a part of attraction) and once in a while you can use it to recover when you fvcked up. but there has to have been sometihng already there

how do you know this girl? how did you sarge her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kuwi

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ready123 said:
first of all, that's a good line to use. it's good for creating intrigue (a part of attraction) and once in a while you can use it to recover when you fvcked up. but there has to have been sometihng already there

how do you know this girl? how did you sarge her?
She works with me, but I haven't worked with her for around a month.
 
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