"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nroug7

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Look, You've developed a terrible case of one-itis for a girl that will DESTROY you.

This is the kind of stupid thing I would have done 3 weeks ago, but the cloud has now lifted from my head. I still get occasional spells of one-itis, but you have to learn to walk away.
Accepting that not everything turns out how you want it to is part of been a man, and eventually, a don juan.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Baron007

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Well it means she have not trust on you that you will with her for long time. So I think you need to prove that you really love her and want to be with her. I hope she will understand if she like you.Good Luck.
 

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Dude. I had literally the same feeling last year. Separate yourself for a few months, forget about it, and you'll literally feel NOTHING (ofc while looking for new chicks).
 

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asianbboy said:
Dude. I had literally the same feeling last year. Separate yourself for a few months, forget about it, and you'll literally feel NOTHING (ofc while looking for new chicks).
Same with me bro. I had one itis for 3 fukking years. Yeah, its sad.

Ofcourse, no contact and meeting new chicks helped a lot. But, for the feelings to disappear completely, I had to get rid of the...

FALSE HOPE. Yes, that things will change and shxt. Struggled a lot with that. Once that was gone, I was cured.
 
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