"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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nroug7

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Look, You've developed a terrible case of one-itis for a girl that will DESTROY you.

This is the kind of stupid thing I would have done 3 weeks ago, but the cloud has now lifted from my head. I still get occasional spells of one-itis, but you have to learn to walk away.
Accepting that not everything turns out how you want it to is part of been a man, and eventually, a don juan.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well it means she have not trust on you that you will with her for long time. So I think you need to prove that you really love her and want to be with her. I hope she will understand if she like you.Good Luck.
 
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Dude. I had literally the same feeling last year. Separate yourself for a few months, forget about it, and you'll literally feel NOTHING (ofc while looking for new chicks).
 
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asianbboy said:
Dude. I had literally the same feeling last year. Separate yourself for a few months, forget about it, and you'll literally feel NOTHING (ofc while looking for new chicks).
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Same with me bro. I had one itis for 3 fukking years. Yeah, its sad.

Ofcourse, no contact and meeting new chicks helped a lot. But, for the feelings to disappear completely, I had to get rid of the...

FALSE HOPE. Yes, that things will change and shxt. Struggled a lot with that. Once that was gone, I was cured.
 
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