"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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girl demands you act like less of a jerk

piday314

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She's been diggin you but demands that you act like less of a jerk, i.e. making less fun of her and her friends, etc. Who's been here, done that?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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JLW

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There's a fine line between being the "funny guy who teases people" and "the rude jackass who is obnoxious."

I obviously wasn't there when you were being a "jerk" so to speak, so I can't say whether or not you truly were being an obnoxious d1ckhead or not.

You need to analyze your actions as objectively as you can and decide for yourself.
 

IamJosan

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I agree with runner83. Girls often times, if not always, say something and then do another.
 

PapiChulo

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Where are you at with her? Just starting, intimate, relationship? It could be a test to see if you drop the game which is a no-no.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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