"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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girl constantly breaking my balls

bilboteabaggins

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ok there is this girl, she is around 24 I think, single, got a 5 year old kid :mad: anyways she is a 7.5, extremely fvckable :rockon:

started talking to her recently, see her once a week at a mutual recreational meeting location, anyways I knew she liked what she saw before I ever even met her because she always had the bedroom eyes on me, but damn I have never met one like her, feisty!!!!!

she is constantly breaking my balls in front of everyone, trying to embarrass me, constantly touching me, preening my clothes/hair, dusting me off, finding other guys around to try and make me jealous over etc. and of course you guessed it...gay jokes LOL, I know what all this adds up to so I don't need help with that, its my fault if I ain't getting at minimum a BJ within a week or less, what I need help on is how to deal with a chick like this, I have never ran into one to be honest and what is the best way to reply to her retarded gay sh!t test stuff, so far I have just basically ignored her ways which I think has confused/intrigued her even more
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Let me state the obvious: WHY DO YOU WANT TO KEEP HER AROUND?

Do you secretly like being treated like sh!t?
There are men who do like it and they make for great cuckold husbands. Maybe that's your thing, in which case keep her around and svck it up...

Edit: I have noticed that respect between people can hardly go up once it dropped.
 

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If you're interested in that sort of thing, OP, you should 'bust her' right back. I, personally, get really really tired of that behavior. But some guys don't mind.

That sort of chick you have to "beat" for her to get interested in you. If you parry her attacks and attack her back better, then she's all yours. Too much work for me, but YMMV.
 

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she is running some game on you as you would normally on her. Its an ideal situation because you actually do want women to reciprocate and bust your balls back! I personally dont like all these shy types with which you cant even tell if she is offended or having fun or both. She has something for you in store.


She is aggressive and has been around weak men.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I ****ing love chicks like this, as long as they don't go too far. They are an awesome challenge.
 

bilboteabaggins

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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Let me state the obvious: WHY DO YOU WANT TO KEEP HER AROUND?

Do you secretly like being treated like sh!t?
There are men who do like it and they make for great cuckold husbands. Maybe that's your thing, in which case keep her around and svck it up...

Edit: I have noticed that respect between people can hardly go up once it dropped.
dude she is doing it with a big smile the whole time, it's far from being treated like sh!t LOL

I just need advice on dealing with this type of girl, like I said, never met one, shy types are much easier IMHO, but I would love to game this one and fvck :D
 

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every time she touches you, swat her hand away and tell her that you are not a sex object. be playful about it.
 

Gray The Prince

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bilboteabaggins said:
dude she is doing it with a big smile the whole time, it's far from being treated like sh!t LOL

I just need advice on dealing with this type of girl, like I said, never met one, shy types are much easier IMHO, but I would love to game this one and fvck :D
Ohhhh...why didn't you say that in your OP? In that case, just turn the tables lol
 

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I have to admit, I am lost on this one and these types, I am used to a girl being shy and passive, which is what I like to be honest

I'll try the tips, just read the book of pook again, it has a good section on the gay burns and I have found him to be right on concerning that, there was this one girl that wanted me so bad(fvcked up situation, I liked her sister blah blah) she constantly busted me with gay jokes

the girl in question has a weakness I noticed already though, "who is this girl, who is that girl your talking to" jealous out the butt ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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