"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girl constantly breaking my balls

bilboteabaggins

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ok there is this girl, she is around 24 I think, single, got a 5 year old kid :mad: anyways she is a 7.5, extremely fvckable :rockon:

started talking to her recently, see her once a week at a mutual recreational meeting location, anyways I knew she liked what she saw before I ever even met her because she always had the bedroom eyes on me, but damn I have never met one like her, feisty!!!!!

she is constantly breaking my balls in front of everyone, trying to embarrass me, constantly touching me, preening my clothes/hair, dusting me off, finding other guys around to try and make me jealous over etc. and of course you guessed it...gay jokes LOL, I know what all this adds up to so I don't need help with that, its my fault if I ain't getting at minimum a BJ within a week or less, what I need help on is how to deal with a chick like this, I have never ran into one to be honest and what is the best way to reply to her retarded gay sh!t test stuff, so far I have just basically ignored her ways which I think has confused/intrigued her even more
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Let me state the obvious: WHY DO YOU WANT TO KEEP HER AROUND?

Do you secretly like being treated like sh!t?
There are men who do like it and they make for great cuckold husbands. Maybe that's your thing, in which case keep her around and svck it up...

Edit: I have noticed that respect between people can hardly go up once it dropped.
 

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If you're interested in that sort of thing, OP, you should 'bust her' right back. I, personally, get really really tired of that behavior. But some guys don't mind.

That sort of chick you have to "beat" for her to get interested in you. If you parry her attacks and attack her back better, then she's all yours. Too much work for me, but YMMV.
 

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she is running some game on you as you would normally on her. Its an ideal situation because you actually do want women to reciprocate and bust your balls back! I personally dont like all these shy types with which you cant even tell if she is offended or having fun or both. She has something for you in store.


She is aggressive and has been around weak men.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I ****ing love chicks like this, as long as they don't go too far. They are an awesome challenge.
 

bilboteabaggins

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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Let me state the obvious: WHY DO YOU WANT TO KEEP HER AROUND?

Do you secretly like being treated like sh!t?
There are men who do like it and they make for great cuckold husbands. Maybe that's your thing, in which case keep her around and svck it up...

Edit: I have noticed that respect between people can hardly go up once it dropped.
dude she is doing it with a big smile the whole time, it's far from being treated like sh!t LOL

I just need advice on dealing with this type of girl, like I said, never met one, shy types are much easier IMHO, but I would love to game this one and fvck :D
 

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every time she touches you, swat her hand away and tell her that you are not a sex object. be playful about it.
 

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bilboteabaggins said:
dude she is doing it with a big smile the whole time, it's far from being treated like sh!t LOL

I just need advice on dealing with this type of girl, like I said, never met one, shy types are much easier IMHO, but I would love to game this one and fvck :D
Ohhhh...why didn't you say that in your OP? In that case, just turn the tables lol
 

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I have to admit, I am lost on this one and these types, I am used to a girl being shy and passive, which is what I like to be honest

I'll try the tips, just read the book of pook again, it has a good section on the gay burns and I have found him to be right on concerning that, there was this one girl that wanted me so bad(fvcked up situation, I liked her sister blah blah) she constantly busted me with gay jokes

the girl in question has a weakness I noticed already though, "who is this girl, who is that girl your talking to" jealous out the butt ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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