"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl Coming To My House Tomorrow To "Chill"

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Alright Im almost sure this girl wants the D. She's traveling quite a far distance to come to my place to "chill". We didn't even specify what we were even gunna do. I already have an idea what its gunna lead up to but getting there is gunna be the interesting part.

What I had in mind is we go to my room, watch a movie on my laptop (American Pie lol)

I make a few dirty remark, hopefully she catches on and then we'll see from there.
Any advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is this your first time going for the lay? Get some drinks and escalate.

Easy as 1 2 3!
 
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InnerHappiness said:
Is this your first time going for the lay? Get some drinks and escalate.

Easy as 1 2 3!
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Lol I have to do this without drinks, I promised id never drink again (bad experiences). Gotta find an alternative way.
 
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Jmac said:
Lol I have to do this without drinks, I promised id never drink again (bad experiences). Gotta find an alternative way.
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theres always dank....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Turn on a movie, offer a massage, tell her to take her shirt off so you can work better, kino, escalate, etc.
 
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Dude,
The best thing you can do is take your time. Make her
wonder how come you didn't try anything yet. I would hold
off touching her for the first hour at least.
Believe me, after that she'll be begging for it.
 
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Benzo22 said:
Dude,
The best thing you can do is take your time. Make her
wonder how come you didn't try anything yet. I would hold
off touching her for the first hour at least.
Believe me, after that she'll be begging for it.
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or shell decide youre not interested and youll become her new gay friend, every girl wants one of those!! Make a move.
 
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Who Dares Win

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First of all the fact that she is coming show that somehow she is interested and giving you a shot.

The fact that you toke alchool away from the equation is bad, not only because alchool relax both of you but mostly because it leave her the chance to be slvtty and have someone to blame the day after (which is even more important than relaxation).

The suggestion about the massage is good, make her get undresses slowly and slowly framing it as necessary for the massage (always leave her a reson to be slvtty without taking responsibility for it).

I suggest you to start holding her hand while you talk during the movie or before, an innocent physical contant will open your way slowly even if its not sexual contact.

Most of all, dont be in a rush, escalate from the beginning till the goal but feel free to take your time as long as you are progressing and she is following you.

Anyway you are starting in a good position since she is coming, one last thing, dont back up if she asks stuff like "what are you doing" while you touch her, the worst thing you can do is leave her and apologize.
If in doubt be daring not worried.
 
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