"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl Coming Over My House

we all eat food

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Were gonna watch a movie, but I don;t know what to do, mking a move wise, I ahve only been out with her once befirem and shes kind of prude. But I really want to make amove today, but I really don't know what to do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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qweretyuiopas

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Hmm prude eh.
Well my advice is to chill and watch the movie, then sometime during it try and hold her hand, if she isnt into it stop then try later if she is wait a bit longer and try snuggling up to her and being really close, again if she isnt ready back off, if she is wait a bit longer then try run your fingers through her hair, if she isnt into it back off and try later if she is then wait a bit longer then go in for the kiss, then blah blah blah u know how it goes.

idk depending on the chick the movie you seeing and the atmosphere it may not go that far or farther, but since u said she kinda a prude who knows. Remember no one is pressuring you so if the vibe isnt right then forget about making a move because if you feel weird and uncomfortable it may be a crash and burn for ya.

My best advice is dont worry about it so much, she will feel the tension that you give off, just relax and have fun.
 

BuryYourDead

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we all eat food said:
Were gonna watch a movie, but I don;t know what to do, mking a move wise, I ahve only been out with her once befirem and shes kind of prude. But I really want to make amove today, but I really don't know what to do.
how oftenly you talk with her??im guessing shes from yur school correct?? if shes from your school AWSOME WATCH A MOVIE i men u talk everyday anyways correct>? b ut if not from your school do not watch a movie caus ethen u dont get to talk and get to know her and ****, you know what im saying? its better not to watch a movie on first hangout if u want to **** her but it wont hurt tooooo much understand?
 

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Try to sit as close as possible when you first sit down. Without making it seem uncomfortable or unnatural. A lot of times my dogs would be around and if they were on our laps you can get some hand holding going on easily off of that. Sometimes I'll just take her hand and put it into mine. If she doesn't want it there she'll pull away...I don't think that's ever happened though.
 
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