"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Were gonna watch a movie, but I don;t know what to do, mking a move wise, I ahve only been out with her once befirem and shes kind of prude. But I really want to make amove today, but I really don't know what to do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hmm prude eh.
Well my advice is to chill and watch the movie, then sometime during it try and hold her hand, if she isnt into it stop then try later if she is wait a bit longer and try snuggling up to her and being really close, again if she isnt ready back off, if she is wait a bit longer then try run your fingers through her hair, if she isnt into it back off and try later if she is then wait a bit longer then go in for the kiss, then blah blah blah u know how it goes.

idk depending on the chick the movie you seeing and the atmosphere it may not go that far or farther, but since u said she kinda a prude who knows. Remember no one is pressuring you so if the vibe isnt right then forget about making a move because if you feel weird and uncomfortable it may be a crash and burn for ya.

My best advice is dont worry about it so much, she will feel the tension that you give off, just relax and have fun.
 
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we all eat food said:
Were gonna watch a movie, but I don;t know what to do, mking a move wise, I ahve only been out with her once befirem and shes kind of prude. But I really want to make amove today, but I really don't know what to do.
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how oftenly you talk with her??im guessing shes from yur school correct?? if shes from your school AWSOME WATCH A MOVIE i men u talk everyday anyways correct>? b ut if not from your school do not watch a movie caus ethen u dont get to talk and get to know her and ****, you know what im saying? its better not to watch a movie on first hangout if u want to **** her but it wont hurt tooooo much understand?
 
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Try to sit as close as possible when you first sit down. Without making it seem uncomfortable or unnatural. A lot of times my dogs would be around and if they were on our laps you can get some hand holding going on easily off of that. Sometimes I'll just take her hand and put it into mine. If she doesn't want it there she'll pull away...I don't think that's ever happened though.
 
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