"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ4Real

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Ok, first of all, do be warned, she could be testing you to see how needy you are. See, if you do the typical guy thing and accept the sex with-out a second thought; she will not feel any challenge from you, and chances are she may just blow you off. Instead of you just "accepting" it. While you are "watching the movie" be cool about it, be ****y and funny. Say something like "Well jee, aren't we feeling kind of frisky tonight?" she'll say "yes" then you say something like "Well, I was planning on watching a movie with you, not making a movie with you"...then just turn around and look at the movie...just be cool.
 

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
"Well, I was planning on watching a movie with you, not making a movie with you"...then just turn around and look at the movie...just be cool.
dude....that was priceless....im gonna steal that...and use it this friday...OMG that was awesome....and i thought my stuff was good...
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Ok, first of all, do be warned, she could be testing you to see how needy you are. See, if you do the typical guy thing and accept the sex with-out a second thought; she will not feel any challenge from you, and chances are she may just blow you off. Instead of you just "accepting" it. While you are "watching the movie" be cool about it, be ****y and funny. Say something like "Well jee, aren't we feeling kind of frisky tonight?" she'll say "yes" then you say something like "Well, I was planning on watching a movie with you, not making a movie with you"...then just turn around and look at the movie...just be cool.
ya i have to admit that was pretty good
 

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Hell yeah that was a great line!:crackup: I'm going to have to try to remember it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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