"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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girl coming over 2nite to 'watch a movie' need help

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ4Real

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Ok, first of all, do be warned, she could be testing you to see how needy you are. See, if you do the typical guy thing and accept the sex with-out a second thought; she will not feel any challenge from you, and chances are she may just blow you off. Instead of you just "accepting" it. While you are "watching the movie" be cool about it, be ****y and funny. Say something like "Well jee, aren't we feeling kind of frisky tonight?" she'll say "yes" then you say something like "Well, I was planning on watching a movie with you, not making a movie with you"...then just turn around and look at the movie...just be cool.
 

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
"Well, I was planning on watching a movie with you, not making a movie with you"...then just turn around and look at the movie...just be cool.
dude....that was priceless....im gonna steal that...and use it this friday...OMG that was awesome....and i thought my stuff was good...
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Ok, first of all, do be warned, she could be testing you to see how needy you are. See, if you do the typical guy thing and accept the sex with-out a second thought; she will not feel any challenge from you, and chances are she may just blow you off. Instead of you just "accepting" it. While you are "watching the movie" be cool about it, be ****y and funny. Say something like "Well jee, aren't we feeling kind of frisky tonight?" she'll say "yes" then you say something like "Well, I was planning on watching a movie with you, not making a movie with you"...then just turn around and look at the movie...just be cool.
ya i have to admit that was pretty good
 

arutha

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Hell yeah that was a great line!:crackup: I'm going to have to try to remember it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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