"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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this girl i known for a couple years online who lived where i use to live until i moved.. well she messaged me out of the blue the other day on msn saying she'll be in blah blah on the blah blah day/date. for a couple days.. sunday and monday and she wants to go for a coffee or something.

"If you're available we should catch up for hot chocolate or something :p Let me know."

to be exact. anyway i know she had a boyfriend last time we spoke which was last week i think. her facebook says from the other day "no longer listed as single" maybe she has been having problems and is single again.. but now i dont know if i should make moves or not... we'll only be meeting one day. i have to study on monday so ill have to meet her on sunday.. one night isnt enough for much is it.. plus she goes back home to her state on tuesday :/
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Approaches you out of nowhere.

Newly single.

Only in town for a day.

Sounds like you've got the perfect ingredients for a ONS my friend. Can't you take the hint?
 
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You should at least meet up and see where it goes. What else are you gonna do anyway? Unless you have a super strong social circle, take all the shots where you can. Being choosy when you have limited options isn't very smart.
 
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what do you mean you gotta study monday? C'mon. Study earlier, meet her on Sunday, and if things are right, meet up with her on Monday as well. Guys always amaze me, they plot & plan & prep to meet women, then when they have to sacrafice a little... they cant do it.
 
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Generally, I don't find woman contacting me out of the blue for no reason. At least for me, this means bootie call :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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she has a bf. she just told me. still try fuk her? lol.
 
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k, just exchanged numbers. she gave it straight away.

1. have coffee
2. get to know each other
3. ask her to take me to her room where she's staying (hotel)
4. get her on the bed.. give her a nice back massage.. get her relaxed and start kissing her neck, etc... (almost always works, ive tried it)
5. fuk her and leave.
 
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