"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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girl coming for a trip to town asked to meet

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this girl i known for a couple years online who lived where i use to live until i moved.. well she messaged me out of the blue the other day on msn saying she'll be in blah blah on the blah blah day/date. for a couple days.. sunday and monday and she wants to go for a coffee or something.

"If you're available we should catch up for hot chocolate or something :p Let me know."

to be exact. anyway i know she had a boyfriend last time we spoke which was last week i think. her facebook says from the other day "no longer listed as single" maybe she has been having problems and is single again.. but now i dont know if i should make moves or not... we'll only be meeting one day. i have to study on monday so ill have to meet her on sunday.. one night isnt enough for much is it.. plus she goes back home to her state on tuesday :/
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scars

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Approaches you out of nowhere.

Newly single.

Only in town for a day.

Sounds like you've got the perfect ingredients for a ONS my friend. Can't you take the hint?
 

PRMoon

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You should at least meet up and see where it goes. What else are you gonna do anyway? Unless you have a super strong social circle, take all the shots where you can. Being choosy when you have limited options isn't very smart.
 

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what do you mean you gotta study monday? C'mon. Study earlier, meet her on Sunday, and if things are right, meet up with her on Monday as well. Guys always amaze me, they plot & plan & prep to meet women, then when they have to sacrafice a little... they cant do it.
 

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Generally, I don't find woman contacting me out of the blue for no reason. At least for me, this means bootie call :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she has a bf. she just told me. still try fuk her? lol.
 

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k, just exchanged numbers. she gave it straight away.

1. have coffee
2. get to know each other
3. ask her to take me to her room where she's staying (hotel)
4. get her on the bed.. give her a nice back massage.. get her relaxed and start kissing her neck, etc... (almost always works, ive tried it)
5. fuk her and leave.
 
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