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Master Don Juan
Wow, I didn't imagine seeing this post pop back up. Thanks for all the input, guys - I guess you all deserve an update.
Heeding some of the advice here, I decided to keep my distance from this one. The only problem is that she won't leave me alone! I keep blowing her off and she keeps calling/texting me.
Realistically, I think that girl just needed some more time to get over the "hot bartender" who fucked her over. I don't notice any particular BPD or bipolar traits from her; I just see a girl with daddy issues (her nickname is DIG - "daddy issues girl").
She started texting me again, for about the third time this summer, a couple weeks ago. We were supposed to meet up on a friday night but then she came up with some lame story about how she would have to cut our plans short because she had to meet her boss later that night at some nightclub. This activated my bullshit sensor so I got angry and called her out on it and told her she couldn't just go popping things up like that if she made plans with me. She actually apologized and acted more girly and cutesy on the phone with promises of meeting up soon.
She would not leave me alone that night texting me a few times how "lame" the club was and how she wouldn't have gone if her boss hadn't made her (which is shady as hell because she works at a freaking daycare). I ended up going to a party and nearly went home with a hotter chick, but she seemed pretty slutty so I passed on it.
So she texts me awake the next day at the crack of noon, asking if I want to hang out. I figure she means relatively soon so I try to get her to meet me at my place. But she keeps stalling on me, saying that she has to get her nails done and demanding to know what we are doing. I figured that maybe she was just trying to dress for the occasion so I tell her that I hadn't made plans but she shouldn't wear anything dressy because we weren't going anywhere fancy (I was going to take her to the park or somewhere outdoors and cheap).
I go to run some errands and she texts me that she got "distracted" and won't come over until later. Well, one of my errands was to go pick up some medicinal herb products. Anyway this was the first time I ever took any edibles, so I ended up eating too much and getting way too stoned. So when she finally texts me saying "can I head over now?" I don't reply because I'm laid out on my waterbed tripping out. I text her the next day saying that I got too high to hang out and she seemed disappointed and a little angry (probably because her dad is an addict) but whatever. Then I called her out about taking all fucking day to come over and told her that she couldn't make me wait like that and she seemed genuinely apologetic. Supposedly her sister was having some crisis or something and she had to care for her.
After that, I really didn't expect anything from her. Except I kind of figured she would be contacting me again. I was not going to text this girl or call her or set anything up. But this past weekend she texted me while I was at a party trying to see what I was doing and she started fishing for me invite her out to it. I told her that I would invite her but I didn't think she would enjoy it. I was kind of drunk already at the party and was running straight uncaring asshole game (trying to get her to send pics of her new nipple piercings and stuff). Anyways I told her that she could come with me to this sketchy carnival in town this weekend, I'm going to text her about this later today, see if she's down.
I dunno if I've written this here before, but I see the world as one big laboratory and I like to see what kind of things work, what doesn't work, and whatever else I can get away with. What I am planning to do is just run straight uncaring asshole game because I think this is exactly what she would respond to. At this point I really do not care about her, and I want to keep it that way. I just have to keep myself from caring for her after (if) we start hooking up. Keep you guys posted.
Heeding some of the advice here, I decided to keep my distance from this one. The only problem is that she won't leave me alone! I keep blowing her off and she keeps calling/texting me.
Realistically, I think that girl just needed some more time to get over the "hot bartender" who fucked her over. I don't notice any particular BPD or bipolar traits from her; I just see a girl with daddy issues (her nickname is DIG - "daddy issues girl").
She started texting me again, for about the third time this summer, a couple weeks ago. We were supposed to meet up on a friday night but then she came up with some lame story about how she would have to cut our plans short because she had to meet her boss later that night at some nightclub. This activated my bullshit sensor so I got angry and called her out on it and told her she couldn't just go popping things up like that if she made plans with me. She actually apologized and acted more girly and cutesy on the phone with promises of meeting up soon.
She would not leave me alone that night texting me a few times how "lame" the club was and how she wouldn't have gone if her boss hadn't made her (which is shady as hell because she works at a freaking daycare). I ended up going to a party and nearly went home with a hotter chick, but she seemed pretty slutty so I passed on it.
So she texts me awake the next day at the crack of noon, asking if I want to hang out. I figure she means relatively soon so I try to get her to meet me at my place. But she keeps stalling on me, saying that she has to get her nails done and demanding to know what we are doing. I figured that maybe she was just trying to dress for the occasion so I tell her that I hadn't made plans but she shouldn't wear anything dressy because we weren't going anywhere fancy (I was going to take her to the park or somewhere outdoors and cheap).
I go to run some errands and she texts me that she got "distracted" and won't come over until later. Well, one of my errands was to go pick up some medicinal herb products. Anyway this was the first time I ever took any edibles, so I ended up eating too much and getting way too stoned. So when she finally texts me saying "can I head over now?" I don't reply because I'm laid out on my waterbed tripping out. I text her the next day saying that I got too high to hang out and she seemed disappointed and a little angry (probably because her dad is an addict) but whatever. Then I called her out about taking all fucking day to come over and told her that she couldn't make me wait like that and she seemed genuinely apologetic. Supposedly her sister was having some crisis or something and she had to care for her.
After that, I really didn't expect anything from her. Except I kind of figured she would be contacting me again. I was not going to text this girl or call her or set anything up. But this past weekend she texted me while I was at a party trying to see what I was doing and she started fishing for me invite her out to it. I told her that I would invite her but I didn't think she would enjoy it. I was kind of drunk already at the party and was running straight uncaring asshole game (trying to get her to send pics of her new nipple piercings and stuff). Anyways I told her that she could come with me to this sketchy carnival in town this weekend, I'm going to text her about this later today, see if she's down.
I dunno if I've written this here before, but I see the world as one big laboratory and I like to see what kind of things work, what doesn't work, and whatever else I can get away with. What I am planning to do is just run straight uncaring asshole game because I think this is exactly what she would respond to. At this point I really do not care about her, and I want to keep it that way. I just have to keep myself from caring for her after (if) we start hooking up. Keep you guys posted.