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Master Don Juan
I’m kind of writing this just to try to make sense of my situation. I probably shouldn’t even post this, but here it is. It might not be the most interesting read in the world, but I’m certain some of you guys can learn something about game, even if it is merely is a cautionary example.
While I’m not really looking for advice, as I’m 99% sure I’m ditching this girl tomorrow, any of you guys that feel like contributing useful advice gets much respect and thanks.
Some background on this girl: she passed me a flirty note on the last day of lecture and if that isn’t a textbook last ditch effort to get someone’s interest I don’t know what is. I probably would have never gamed her if she hadn’t opened me with the note (as she’s about a 6.5 and didn’t seem my type) but it was just so cute and charming so I figured why the hell not. I went out to lunch with her and her friends that same day and ran some game. She put her number in my phone without me asking and we made loose plans to party after finals.
Sometime last week I ended up texting her and we kind of sent messages back and forth throughout the day. She admitted to having “daddy issues”, and being kind of a mess. She also told me that she’s had sex with three guys (yeah, right). I guess she’s also bi-curious, not too surprising for the average 21 year old girls I meet, and dates men and women quite frequently. Anyways, I brushed off these red flags and plowed through and got her talking about the dirty things she liked in bed to set a sexual frame and avoid ljbf.
I set up a hangout for last Thursday that she flaked out on. I plowed through that and set up another one for this Monday. “Plow plow plow” is my mantra these days.
The hangout on Monday was strange to say the least. We shot some pool and then went to a hookah joint. While I had my arm around her, she opened up and told me about how she builds up walls to keep people away. This is most likely because her dad is a suicidal drug addict (yet she still loves him more than anyone else in the world), and that she has been “burned by guys harder than can imagine”.
However, she said that she felt like she could let me in and already trusted me. Apparently, one of the people I worked with told her some of the extraordinary things I have done to take care of my family, and that really impressed her, so she wanted to get to know me better and she thinks that I have good character.
She told me how she’s had two serious relationships, and how she loved the first guy because he was “deep” and the second guy because he was very “caring”. She was unclear on how these guys “burned” her or whatever. She also told me that she felt used in her last “relationship” with this “super-hot bartender” that basically just used her for sex and was a complete douche. I mean I guess we all make dumb ass decisions when we’re 21 so I decided to let it slide, although this is what’s contributing to my problem with her now.
As an aside, it seems to me that girls that are very circumspect and “honest” about relationships and themselves are also the ones that are most likely to have something big that they’re hiding. It is very difficult for me to take girls at their word, at the advice of brother Karma, and also in my personal experience. I don’t understand why she would already trust me, and there’s something not quite right about this whole thing, there are really no reasons for her to tell me these things about her family and relationships unless she’s subconsciously trying to push me away. And I called her out on that, but she says that she is “just trying to be honest”.
I felt that she was becoming emotionally attached but not physically attached, so I escalated kino and we ended up making out a little in my car before I dropped her off.
While I’m not really looking for advice, as I’m 99% sure I’m ditching this girl tomorrow, any of you guys that feel like contributing useful advice gets much respect and thanks.
Some background on this girl: she passed me a flirty note on the last day of lecture and if that isn’t a textbook last ditch effort to get someone’s interest I don’t know what is. I probably would have never gamed her if she hadn’t opened me with the note (as she’s about a 6.5 and didn’t seem my type) but it was just so cute and charming so I figured why the hell not. I went out to lunch with her and her friends that same day and ran some game. She put her number in my phone without me asking and we made loose plans to party after finals.
Sometime last week I ended up texting her and we kind of sent messages back and forth throughout the day. She admitted to having “daddy issues”, and being kind of a mess. She also told me that she’s had sex with three guys (yeah, right). I guess she’s also bi-curious, not too surprising for the average 21 year old girls I meet, and dates men and women quite frequently. Anyways, I brushed off these red flags and plowed through and got her talking about the dirty things she liked in bed to set a sexual frame and avoid ljbf.
I set up a hangout for last Thursday that she flaked out on. I plowed through that and set up another one for this Monday. “Plow plow plow” is my mantra these days.
The hangout on Monday was strange to say the least. We shot some pool and then went to a hookah joint. While I had my arm around her, she opened up and told me about how she builds up walls to keep people away. This is most likely because her dad is a suicidal drug addict (yet she still loves him more than anyone else in the world), and that she has been “burned by guys harder than can imagine”.
However, she said that she felt like she could let me in and already trusted me. Apparently, one of the people I worked with told her some of the extraordinary things I have done to take care of my family, and that really impressed her, so she wanted to get to know me better and she thinks that I have good character.
She told me how she’s had two serious relationships, and how she loved the first guy because he was “deep” and the second guy because he was very “caring”. She was unclear on how these guys “burned” her or whatever. She also told me that she felt used in her last “relationship” with this “super-hot bartender” that basically just used her for sex and was a complete douche. I mean I guess we all make dumb ass decisions when we’re 21 so I decided to let it slide, although this is what’s contributing to my problem with her now.
As an aside, it seems to me that girls that are very circumspect and “honest” about relationships and themselves are also the ones that are most likely to have something big that they’re hiding. It is very difficult for me to take girls at their word, at the advice of brother Karma, and also in my personal experience. I don’t understand why she would already trust me, and there’s something not quite right about this whole thing, there are really no reasons for her to tell me these things about her family and relationships unless she’s subconsciously trying to push me away. And I called her out on that, but she says that she is “just trying to be honest”.
I felt that she was becoming emotionally attached but not physically attached, so I escalated kino and we ended up making out a little in my car before I dropped her off.
