"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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girl cheating on my friend

stewie

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One of my best friends and I started college this year. He has a girlfriend back at home that he’s been going out with for a little over a year now. Early in their relationship she cheated on him with her ex boyfriend. They went on a little break for about a week or so and then got back together. During their break my friend kissed a couple of girls. A few months later she found out and freaked out and they almost broke up.

For a little bit they both stayed loyal, but she is starting to cheat on him again. but with a different guy. People from back home have been telling me about it and apparently a lot of people know about it because she hasn’t been trying to hide it. He really likes her (and I think she really likes him, she just can’t stop cheating on him) but they obviously need to break up.

What should I do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jakeyboy

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if she really likes him, she wouldnt do this. trust me.

tell him. let them fight it out. and tell him you hope this ends in a breakup because obviously you dont wanna see him all hurt and head fvcked by that bit*h
 

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I'd tell him.

Wouldnt you want him to tell you if you were in the same situation?
 

Luveno

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Bros before hoes

He deserves to know. Tell him. Suggest he drops the *****...offer to take him out on the town and get him hooked up.

Let him make the final decision though. If he's fool enough to go back, he deserves to have his heart broken.
 

cactus3178

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You need to tell him ASAP. Put yourself in his shoes and ask yourself if you'd like to know. Wasting time on a b*tch that's cheating = time out of your life that you'll never get back.

If it's one thing I've learned here, it's that there is zero tolerance policy for cheating.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ_Dork

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Dude, why wouldn't you tell him? He's your best friend.

It's easy to find the b1tches, it's hard to find the boys to back you up.
 
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