"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl cheated

hhlowin

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Girl cheated on her boyfriend - with me and i didnt know it till today. She kept telling me they were broken up and all that stuff, then i find out from a friend, all the times we did stuff, she was with the other guy at that time. Should i be pissed? She says she is staying with him and is acting towards me like she just chose to be with him today, when they had been going out for weeks. Im not sure if i should go off or just next her? Any advice?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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aftershock

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Next without even thinking about it. Shes devious and not worthy of your time.
 

08aisaac

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Well find you a different girl you know.
 

Void

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Tell her to fvck off. Girls who cheat are automatically thrown away like trash.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anomalous

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DONT LET HER HAVE BOTH OF YOU AT THE SAME.

ITS EITHER YOU OR HIM. MAKE HER WORK TO GET YOU.

BUT THEN AGAIN, SHE IS NOT THE ONLY GIRL IN THE WORLD!
 

08aisaac

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I have spoken my mind. But she obviously isn't the relationship type and makes a better fuc*-buddy. Just tell her you only want to hook up and be Friends with benefits.
 

penkitten

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leave her alone.
she will cheat on you too.
probally already has.
 
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