"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl cheated

hhlowin

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Girl cheated on her boyfriend - with me and i didnt know it till today. She kept telling me they were broken up and all that stuff, then i find out from a friend, all the times we did stuff, she was with the other guy at that time. Should i be pissed? She says she is staying with him and is acting towards me like she just chose to be with him today, when they had been going out for weeks. Im not sure if i should go off or just next her? Any advice?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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aftershock

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Next without even thinking about it. Shes devious and not worthy of your time.
 

08aisaac

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Well find you a different girl you know.
 

Void

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Tell her to fvck off. Girls who cheat are automatically thrown away like trash.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anomalous

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DONT LET HER HAVE BOTH OF YOU AT THE SAME.

ITS EITHER YOU OR HIM. MAKE HER WORK TO GET YOU.

BUT THEN AGAIN, SHE IS NOT THE ONLY GIRL IN THE WORLD!
 

08aisaac

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I have spoken my mind. But she obviously isn't the relationship type and makes a better fuc*-buddy. Just tell her you only want to hook up and be Friends with benefits.
 

penkitten

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leave her alone.
she will cheat on you too.
probally already has.
 
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