"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl Can't Orgasm

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So I have been having sex with this girl for a year. All the time she said that she nutted and I believed her because I could always see liquid dripping on my stuff. The other day she admitted to me that she has never never orgasm'd with a boy ever..... She admitted that she hunches a pillow on the regular to achieve an orgasm. I need some help!

One question is what is that stuff that she puts on me when we have sex? It's usually a lot and makes a mess. I thought that was the orgasm.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
She phychologically ****ed up because she got pregnant before...

So she cant orgasm when shes having sex... she hunches pillows to have an orgasm.
Maybe this which I found out of context in another thread?...

Bodily fluids, ewww....

Asuming it's not a technique problem from you (and you've tried different positions including eating her out), must be some psychologicial issue for her.
 

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Yes it's phychological. She told me she had something against makes. How didn't I know I was with someone with mental problems. This is crazy. When we have sex all she thinks about is about getting pregnant....

This **** making me need some mental help too. This **** is just too crazy. Explains all the problems I have had with her....
 

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Ask her outright what you can do... Give her your hand and say show me how you like it. Be smooth about it and dont pressure her.

This has worked well for me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Get her on top so that she's -grinding-, not bobbing up and down, so that there's some pressure on her ****. Sounds like she has trouble with vaginal orgasms but not ****oral ones, which is completely normal. It'll feel damn good for her even if it's the same "rub against a pillow" action because you're in her too.
 

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I can obviously see now that this is not my problem. But I will try different things and I gotta make her mentally more comfortable with me. You think you'd establish something like this with a girl you lived with for 6 months smh.
 
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