Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl Can't Orgasm

Pierce

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So I have been having sex with this girl for a year. All the time she said that she nutted and I believed her because I could always see liquid dripping on my stuff. The other day she admitted to me that she has never never orgasm'd with a boy ever..... She admitted that she hunches a pillow on the regular to achieve an orgasm. I need some help!

One question is what is that stuff that she puts on me when we have sex? It's usually a lot and makes a mess. I thought that was the orgasm.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
She phychologically ****ed up because she got pregnant before...

So she cant orgasm when shes having sex... she hunches pillows to have an orgasm.
Maybe this which I found out of context in another thread?...

Bodily fluids, ewww....

Asuming it's not a technique problem from you (and you've tried different positions including eating her out), must be some psychologicial issue for her.
 

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Yes it's phychological. She told me she had something against makes. How didn't I know I was with someone with mental problems. This is crazy. When we have sex all she thinks about is about getting pregnant....

This **** making me need some mental help too. This **** is just too crazy. Explains all the problems I have had with her....
 

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Ask her outright what you can do... Give her your hand and say show me how you like it. Be smooth about it and dont pressure her.

This has worked well for me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Get her on top so that she's -grinding-, not bobbing up and down, so that there's some pressure on her ****. Sounds like she has trouble with vaginal orgasms but not ****oral ones, which is completely normal. It'll feel damn good for her even if it's the same "rub against a pillow" action because you're in her too.
 

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I can obviously see now that this is not my problem. But I will try different things and I gotta make her mentally more comfortable with me. You think you'd establish something like this with a girl you lived with for 6 months smh.
 
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