"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl Can't Orgasm

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So I have been having sex with this girl for a year. All the time she said that she nutted and I believed her because I could always see liquid dripping on my stuff. The other day she admitted to me that she has never never orgasm'd with a boy ever..... She admitted that she hunches a pillow on the regular to achieve an orgasm. I need some help!

One question is what is that stuff that she puts on me when we have sex? It's usually a lot and makes a mess. I thought that was the orgasm.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
She phychologically ****ed up because she got pregnant before...

So she cant orgasm when shes having sex... she hunches pillows to have an orgasm.
Maybe this which I found out of context in another thread?...

Bodily fluids, ewww....

Asuming it's not a technique problem from you (and you've tried different positions including eating her out), must be some psychologicial issue for her.
 

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Yes it's phychological. She told me she had something against makes. How didn't I know I was with someone with mental problems. This is crazy. When we have sex all she thinks about is about getting pregnant....

This **** making me need some mental help too. This **** is just too crazy. Explains all the problems I have had with her....
 

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Ask her outright what you can do... Give her your hand and say show me how you like it. Be smooth about it and dont pressure her.

This has worked well for me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Get her on top so that she's -grinding-, not bobbing up and down, so that there's some pressure on her ****. Sounds like she has trouble with vaginal orgasms but not ****oral ones, which is completely normal. It'll feel damn good for her even if it's the same "rub against a pillow" action because you're in her too.
 

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I can obviously see now that this is not my problem. But I will try different things and I gotta make her mentally more comfortable with me. You think you'd establish something like this with a girl you lived with for 6 months smh.
 
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