"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anfz

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Hey guys know this girl for about a month now,we havent seen each other a whole lot due to her strict ass parent,s and her schedule and mine just dont go,now I was thinking to keep her around just for the sake of it ,in the meantime i get this msg she wants to talk ,and that shes been thinking about us,now personally shes gona probably break it off ,but is it better for me to break it off ,or is it better to try to persuae her to stay on ? whats your take ? how should i act on this,never really done any break ups ? some advice guys
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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danielzxc

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If you just wanna keep her around, then why would you break it off with her?

Let her do the breaking, if that's what she wants. If she tells you she doesn't wanna see you anymore, you can try and convince her that you really like her and wanna be with her then.

And if she still wants to break it off no matter what you say, then so what? You don't seem like you would really care anyway.
 

chaddycakes21

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Do people tell you what to wear and what to breath each day. Its your life man. Do what you think is right. If your going to break up with her because you think she might do it first.... thats really childish. Talk it over with her, see where you two think its going and take it from there. If she has any doubt in the relationship don't even waste your time man. Remember that your the prize not her.
 
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