"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anfz

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Hey guys know this girl for about a month now,we havent seen each other a whole lot due to her strict ass parent,s and her schedule and mine just dont go,now I was thinking to keep her around just for the sake of it ,in the meantime i get this msg she wants to talk ,and that shes been thinking about us,now personally shes gona probably break it off ,but is it better for me to break it off ,or is it better to try to persuae her to stay on ? whats your take ? how should i act on this,never really done any break ups ? some advice guys
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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danielzxc

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If you just wanna keep her around, then why would you break it off with her?

Let her do the breaking, if that's what she wants. If she tells you she doesn't wanna see you anymore, you can try and convince her that you really like her and wanna be with her then.

And if she still wants to break it off no matter what you say, then so what? You don't seem like you would really care anyway.
 

chaddycakes21

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Do people tell you what to wear and what to breath each day. Its your life man. Do what you think is right. If your going to break up with her because you think she might do it first.... thats really childish. Talk it over with her, see where you two think its going and take it from there. If she has any doubt in the relationship don't even waste your time man. Remember that your the prize not her.
 
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