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Girl Body Language- The Hair Flick- Who else notices this all the time?

doubledown11

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So I recently read an article about female body language, and how women will flick their hair or "groom" themselves when in the presence of a man that they feel some attraction to.

What do you guys think of this? I swear I see girls flicking their hair around me a lot lately, and it makes me feel like even more of an idiot for not talking to them.

Curious on your thoughts.

#2 is the concept of "mirroring" - is it fair to say that if a girl is mirroring you that they want something more? I recently was at a bar, the girl was a friend of a friend, was nodding her head to the music after I had started doing so ... but when I went to talk to her my game was piss-poor and nothing happened.

Thanks for reading.:rockon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't rely on it when, other people are around.
 

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i get this sometimes when i say hi to a girl for the first time or i'm passing one on the street, mall, somewhere in public. they usaully don't smile at me though so i don't know if it's "legit".

some lady did it to me earlier today. i was going to bank and she was conducting some kind of survey. i agreed and noticed she did 'le flip' as i approached to get the clipboard. probably didn't mean anything though, you can never really tell.
 

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Depends on the situation. If you always look for the hair flick, after a while you can tell when it is a legitimate IOI and when it is a false alarm.

Women WILL hair flick when they feel sexual attraction. It's been proven. They will also run their hands through their hair. From what I have seen in the past that is a huge IOI.

That being said, they will also play with their hair as a nervous habit or because their hair is in their eyes. One time I noticed a beautiful girl who couldn't stop flicking her hair when she was talking to me at the bar. However, I watched her after we were finished talking and she continued to flick her hair - in front of other guys, when talking to her girlfriends, when ordering a drink, etc.

You have to gauge how and when it is done, but always be on the lookout for it. It can be a very valuable IOI and I have seen this first hand. :D
 
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tsmith2334 said:
Depends on the situation. If you always look for the hair flick, after a while you can tell when it is a legitimate IOI and when it is a false alarm.

Women WILL hair flick when they feel sexual attraction. It's been proven. They will also run their hands through their hair. From what I have seen in the past that is a huge IOI.

That being said, they will also play with their hair as a nervous habit or because their hair is in their eyes. One time I noticed a beautiful girl who couldn't stop flicking her hair when she was talking to me at the bar. However, I watched her after we were finished talking and she continued to flick her hair - in front of other guys, when talking to her girlfriends, when ordering a drink, etc.

You have to gauge how and when it is done, but always be on the lookout for it. It can be a very valuable IOI and I have seen this first hand. :D
yes girls have their greasy hands in their hair often, that's what makes it deceptive imo, especially somewhere like university.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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You are probably just over-analyzing. Body language should never be interpreted by itself or out of context. It is true, that when a woman plays with her hair it is a sign of sexual attraction if she is engaged in a conversation with someone she fancies, but out of context she could just as easily just be playing with her hair because she likes to play with her hair.
 
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