"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Girl Body Language- The Hair Flick- Who else notices this all the time?

doubledown11

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 7, 2008
Messages
29
Reaction score
0
So I recently read an article about female body language, and how women will flick their hair or "groom" themselves when in the presence of a man that they feel some attraction to.

What do you guys think of this? I swear I see girls flicking their hair around me a lot lately, and it makes me feel like even more of an idiot for not talking to them.

Curious on your thoughts.

#2 is the concept of "mirroring" - is it fair to say that if a girl is mirroring you that they want something more? I recently was at a bar, the girl was a friend of a friend, was nodding her head to the music after I had started doing so ... but when I went to talk to her my game was piss-poor and nothing happened.

Thanks for reading.:rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

I.A.F.Y.B.

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2007
Messages
2,051
Reaction score
21
Location
USA
Don't rely on it when, other people are around.
 

rapidfire

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 25, 2008
Messages
55
Reaction score
0
i get this sometimes when i say hi to a girl for the first time or i'm passing one on the street, mall, somewhere in public. they usaully don't smile at me though so i don't know if it's "legit".

some lady did it to me earlier today. i was going to bank and she was conducting some kind of survey. i agreed and noticed she did 'le flip' as i approached to get the clipboard. probably didn't mean anything though, you can never really tell.
 

tsmith2334

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2007
Messages
761
Reaction score
16
Location
NC
Depends on the situation. If you always look for the hair flick, after a while you can tell when it is a legitimate IOI and when it is a false alarm.

Women WILL hair flick when they feel sexual attraction. It's been proven. They will also run their hands through their hair. From what I have seen in the past that is a huge IOI.

That being said, they will also play with their hair as a nervous habit or because their hair is in their eyes. One time I noticed a beautiful girl who couldn't stop flicking her hair when she was talking to me at the bar. However, I watched her after we were finished talking and she continued to flick her hair - in front of other guys, when talking to her girlfriends, when ordering a drink, etc.

You have to gauge how and when it is done, but always be on the lookout for it. It can be a very valuable IOI and I have seen this first hand. :D
 
Last edited:

rapidfire

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 25, 2008
Messages
55
Reaction score
0
tsmith2334 said:
Depends on the situation. If you always look for the hair flick, after a while you can tell when it is a legitimate IOI and when it is a false alarm.

Women WILL hair flick when they feel sexual attraction. It's been proven. They will also run their hands through their hair. From what I have seen in the past that is a huge IOI.

That being said, they will also play with their hair as a nervous habit or because their hair is in their eyes. One time I noticed a beautiful girl who couldn't stop flicking her hair when she was talking to me at the bar. However, I watched her after we were finished talking and she continued to flick her hair - in front of other guys, when talking to her girlfriends, when ordering a drink, etc.

You have to gauge how and when it is done, but always be on the lookout for it. It can be a very valuable IOI and I have seen this first hand. :D
yes girls have their greasy hands in their hair often, that's what makes it deceptive imo, especially somewhere like university.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

fuse

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 7, 2008
Messages
10
Reaction score
0
You are probably just over-analyzing. Body language should never be interpreted by itself or out of context. It is true, that when a woman plays with her hair it is a sign of sexual attraction if she is engaged in a conversation with someone she fancies, but out of context she could just as easily just be playing with her hair because she likes to play with her hair.
 
Top