"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was hitting on this chick and she blocked and deleted me :( sucks things have to end like this, i should have NEXTED HER FIRST.

Shes prolling thinking how easy i got played!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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YEah online

I would average her about a 7 but her mind was a 12 a albert einstien chick

i just was describing how i like my bed room

soft silk sheets, soft music, light candles, vanilla sent, small lil water fountain, fire flace, very sensual,

then she said, i better leave before if get sexually harrassed.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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LOL!!!! Just wow. She has not only 0 interest in you but probably 0 respect too. She was probably just waiting for you to say "come over" to her.
 

spider_007

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Re: YEah online

Originally posted by SSben
Ii just was describing how i like my bed room soft silk sheets, soft music, light candles, vanilla sent, small lil water fountain, fire flace, very sensual, then she said, i better leave before if get sexually harrassed.
OH GOD, NOT EVEN I WOULD BE THIS__________.:(

there si like 15 things worong with this. This is got to be a joke.
 

Climax

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Whats her msn addy?;)


Laterz...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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she's insane or bizarre. I would've been laughing my ass off.
 

everywomanshero

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She may have.....

mistaken you for a homosexual. She probably thought you believed she was a male. May have been embaressed by that. Try sounding like a man who has sex with women next time.
 

Create Reality

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Dude if your gonna try to pattern then dont do it over the net it doesnt work because you cant observe nonverbal communications and that accounts for over 70% of all communications. Next time make sure you build rapport and then pattern.

Even if you werent trying to pattern, you still were doing exactly that. She might have thought you were just a freak.
 

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exactly i tried to parttern a girl by text message one time , and she told me i was wack
 

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Dude... describing your room? That's about as bad as what I used to do, IM chicks at my hs making up some bs excuse as to how I got their sn when I thought they were hot. You CAN'T do stuff like that. Next time, stay away from AIM til you get game in real life, and then slowly charm her, but not by describing to her the area you want to have delusional romantic love in. I'm surprised you didn't say it had candles... or did you?? lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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