"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl blocked and deleted me

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I was hitting on this chick and she blocked and deleted me :( sucks things have to end like this, i should have NEXTED HER FIRST.

Shes prolling thinking how easy i got played!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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YEah online

I would average her about a 7 but her mind was a 12 a albert einstien chick

i just was describing how i like my bed room

soft silk sheets, soft music, light candles, vanilla sent, small lil water fountain, fire flace, very sensual,

then she said, i better leave before if get sexually harrassed.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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LOL!!!! Just wow. She has not only 0 interest in you but probably 0 respect too. She was probably just waiting for you to say "come over" to her.
 

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Re: YEah online

Originally posted by SSben
Ii just was describing how i like my bed room soft silk sheets, soft music, light candles, vanilla sent, small lil water fountain, fire flace, very sensual, then she said, i better leave before if get sexually harrassed.
OH GOD, NOT EVEN I WOULD BE THIS__________.:(

there si like 15 things worong with this. This is got to be a joke.
 

Climax

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Whats her msn addy?;)


Laterz...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PeeGee

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she's insane or bizarre. I would've been laughing my ass off.
 

everywomanshero

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She may have.....

mistaken you for a homosexual. She probably thought you believed she was a male. May have been embaressed by that. Try sounding like a man who has sex with women next time.
 

Create Reality

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Dude if your gonna try to pattern then dont do it over the net it doesnt work because you cant observe nonverbal communications and that accounts for over 70% of all communications. Next time make sure you build rapport and then pattern.

Even if you werent trying to pattern, you still were doing exactly that. She might have thought you were just a freak.
 

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exactly i tried to parttern a girl by text message one time , and she told me i was wack
 

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Dude... describing your room? That's about as bad as what I used to do, IM chicks at my hs making up some bs excuse as to how I got their sn when I thought they were hot. You CAN'T do stuff like that. Next time, stay away from AIM til you get game in real life, and then slowly charm her, but not by describing to her the area you want to have delusional romantic love in. I'm surprised you didn't say it had candles... or did you?? lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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