"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl blocked and deleted me

SSben

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I was hitting on this chick and she blocked and deleted me :( sucks things have to end like this, i should have NEXTED HER FIRST.

Shes prolling thinking how easy i got played!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SSben

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YEah online

I would average her about a 7 but her mind was a 12 a albert einstien chick

i just was describing how i like my bed room

soft silk sheets, soft music, light candles, vanilla sent, small lil water fountain, fire flace, very sensual,

then she said, i better leave before if get sexually harrassed.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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LOL!!!! Just wow. She has not only 0 interest in you but probably 0 respect too. She was probably just waiting for you to say "come over" to her.
 

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Re: YEah online

Originally posted by SSben
Ii just was describing how i like my bed room soft silk sheets, soft music, light candles, vanilla sent, small lil water fountain, fire flace, very sensual, then she said, i better leave before if get sexually harrassed.
OH GOD, NOT EVEN I WOULD BE THIS__________.:(

there si like 15 things worong with this. This is got to be a joke.
 

Climax

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Whats her msn addy?;)


Laterz...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PeeGee

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she's insane or bizarre. I would've been laughing my ass off.
 

everywomanshero

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She may have.....

mistaken you for a homosexual. She probably thought you believed she was a male. May have been embaressed by that. Try sounding like a man who has sex with women next time.
 

Create Reality

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Dude if your gonna try to pattern then dont do it over the net it doesnt work because you cant observe nonverbal communications and that accounts for over 70% of all communications. Next time make sure you build rapport and then pattern.

Even if you werent trying to pattern, you still were doing exactly that. She might have thought you were just a freak.
 

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exactly i tried to parttern a girl by text message one time , and she told me i was wack
 

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Dude... describing your room? That's about as bad as what I used to do, IM chicks at my hs making up some bs excuse as to how I got their sn when I thought they were hot. You CAN'T do stuff like that. Next time, stay away from AIM til you get game in real life, and then slowly charm her, but not by describing to her the area you want to have delusional romantic love in. I'm surprised you didn't say it had candles... or did you?? lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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