"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey love. I meant to text you back yesterday buy I was training police k9's all day. So I was super busy. I'm good. How are you?

Cool doing alot better back home finally and been able to get myself back together walking and getting stronger going to the gym my foot is only thing that. Got damaged bad and the nerves got shot they said gonna take a while to regrow. I went to daughtry show last night just seeing if you wanted to go lol. Definitley we should go out back together sometime soon and pick up where we last left off.

Ugh I wish I could have gone, I would have loved to! And I am so glad you're doing better! Yes, we can definitely start where we left off.

Yeah it was cool sarah mclaughin and couple other performances i never heard of. great we can catch up a bit. You free wensday night? We can go to dnb. and have bite to eat and have some fun.

No reply she seems sincere remembers me n stuff she bailed on me though when i had wreck not gonna marry her. Could i sleep with her if done wright?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stop the madness. This can't go on.
 

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How many red dots does this guy need before he gets ignored or banned? Christ.
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
Im serious what shoudl i ask her bout dawgs?
aren't you a comedian in real life? you could talk about that.
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
Im serious what shoudl i ask her bout dawgs?
I'm trying to help you with the bigger picture here. Human association is built on shared experience, whether it's friendships or relationships.

Go and read those links until you find something that interests you. And ask her about that. You being interested in it and her being interested in it - that's a shared experience. That's where an emotional connection comes from.

For example, you have a hurt leg. If you see a random girl on crutches, you had damn well better go talk to her. It's going to go ten times easier, because you immediately have something to talk about - the shared experience of similar injuries. That's just the ice-breaker and you go from there. Call it a way to get your broken foot in the door.
 
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