"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl at work

Psicks

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I need some help getting the age of a girl who just started. I've talked to her a few times now and I am interested in asking her out which wont be a problem, the problem is that my best guess is that shes around 17 but since im just a little older than that (19 now 20 in Jan) I would like to know for sure so im not breaking any laws.

I was hoping someone here might have a quick easy way to get a girls age without showing too much interest. Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OneArmDeeJay

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Just ask her what High School she graduated from.

If shes still going to High School then shes under age.
 

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I was thinking something to get a more specific age since when I was in my last year at high school I had some friends who we're 17-18. As long as shes 17+ its not a big deal anything and I dont think I would mind dating a HS chick since i've only been out myself for a year now.
 

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If she is still in High School then...

Dating her is legal

But,

Sex is not. You can go to jail and I belive you will be prosecuted for Statutory rape.
 

mrRuckus

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18 isn't the typical "age of consent" in most places. I don't know where people get this idea. This comes up a lot (guess i just happen to know a lot of creepy people) and then i mention www.ageofconsent.com and everyone looks at me weird like i'm goin around doing 14 year olds. If i remember right, it's u.s. centric listing every state's age of consent along with its sex laws, but also includes a number of other countries.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Evangenlion

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what happened to just asking her for her age?

"hey xxxxxx, i was just wondering how old u are?"

done, finished.

and if she is 16/17.....****ing leave her alone. if she's 18, but for some reason its not the age of consent in your state/country, just go "ops, like anyone really knows that anyway mr officer. who knew it was 21?"
 
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