"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Psicks

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I need some help getting the age of a girl who just started. I've talked to her a few times now and I am interested in asking her out which wont be a problem, the problem is that my best guess is that shes around 17 but since im just a little older than that (19 now 20 in Jan) I would like to know for sure so im not breaking any laws.

I was hoping someone here might have a quick easy way to get a girls age without showing too much interest. Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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OneArmDeeJay

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Just ask her what High School she graduated from.

If shes still going to High School then shes under age.
 

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I was thinking something to get a more specific age since when I was in my last year at high school I had some friends who we're 17-18. As long as shes 17+ its not a big deal anything and I dont think I would mind dating a HS chick since i've only been out myself for a year now.
 

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If she is still in High School then...

Dating her is legal

But,

Sex is not. You can go to jail and I belive you will be prosecuted for Statutory rape.
 

mrRuckus

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18 isn't the typical "age of consent" in most places. I don't know where people get this idea. This comes up a lot (guess i just happen to know a lot of creepy people) and then i mention www.ageofconsent.com and everyone looks at me weird like i'm goin around doing 14 year olds. If i remember right, it's u.s. centric listing every state's age of consent along with its sex laws, but also includes a number of other countries.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Evangenlion

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what happened to just asking her for her age?

"hey xxxxxx, i was just wondering how old u are?"

done, finished.

and if she is 16/17.....****ing leave her alone. if she's 18, but for some reason its not the age of consent in your state/country, just go "ops, like anyone really knows that anyway mr officer. who knew it was 21?"
 
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