"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've just started a job as a cleaner at a Garden Centre and tonight I was working with a girl for an hour in one part of the store.

I don't want a relationship with this girl, and I'd probably never see her outside of the workplace but I just wanna be able to talk to her comfortably, when I work.

I didn't say one word tonight apart form when I needed something. She's very bubbly and extrovert and I just ain't.

I just wanna like break the ice and I have few ideas but I don't want her to be like "Whatever" because I approached it wrong as I have to work with her on some days.

I'm 16 (and look a bit younger than that) and she's 17 and she fancies herself as a bit of a rude girl; a bit of a joker.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just be nice to her, smile once in a while.

Make a joke or two, break the ice that way. There really is no other way...

Have fun!:)
 
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I see what you're saying but I'm not someone who can just bang in with a joke.

Should I just try and keep it simple and ask her things like how long she's worked there and stuff?
 
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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Just treat her as any other girl/person for that matter.

Its just talking!!!

Talk, Listen - repeat....

There is no TRY!!! - Yoda

Dont TRY to be funny, Dont TRY to be anyone else - just be yourself, Be A Man and let it flow

If you have no fear...It helps

Sarge On...
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Thanks, Shezz. :D
 
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Ha I know what you mean. I have somewhat sort of a dark looking-ness about me. I look like the guy who you wouldn't want to pick a fight with. lol. So just start talking to her. But I don't know I have never had a job and I don't know what it would be like. lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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