"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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johncrawford

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Been a barman for 2 weeks now at a hotel.
Been chatting to a few of the receptionist.Theres 2 of them that I like.
Introduced myself to one of them while having a cigarette break outside yesterday.
I walked pass her again latter in the day after bringing some chocolate cake up from the kitchen and said "mmmm chocolate cake he he but you have to pay" she said I don't have any money.Latter I give her half a slice and she said really and said thank you twice but without eye contact.

Today I was helping carry suitcases in the hotel and she was watching how much I could carry.At the end of the shift she came to the bar to ask me if the duty manager was there in a girly voice.I got him, walked past her and she just stood maybe thinking that I would say goodbye.Then she went.

The thing is I like the another receptionist better and always get good eye contact from her.She gets a lot of male attention I have noticed.Which women should I go for?

John:confused:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'd just like to tell everyone else to not bring up "dont go out with women in the workplace" advice because it's beaten to death.
 
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ah com on give the guy a break, why does everyone say dont go for the girl at work.

im in the same boat and got a lunch date today but im just playing it safe thou just incase
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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