"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl at work

johncrawford

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Been a barman for 2 weeks now at a hotel.
Been chatting to a few of the receptionist.Theres 2 of them that I like.
Introduced myself to one of them while having a cigarette break outside yesterday.
I walked pass her again latter in the day after bringing some chocolate cake up from the kitchen and said "mmmm chocolate cake he he but you have to pay" she said I don't have any money.Latter I give her half a slice and she said really and said thank you twice but without eye contact.

Today I was helping carry suitcases in the hotel and she was watching how much I could carry.At the end of the shift she came to the bar to ask me if the duty manager was there in a girly voice.I got him, walked past her and she just stood maybe thinking that I would say goodbye.Then she went.

The thing is I like the another receptionist better and always get good eye contact from her.She gets a lot of male attention I have noticed.Which women should I go for?

John:confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MisterMcGee

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I'd just like to tell everyone else to not bring up "dont go out with women in the workplace" advice because it's beaten to death.
 

bluemanson

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ah com on give the guy a break, why does everyone say dont go for the girl at work.

im in the same boat and got a lunch date today but im just playing it safe thou just incase
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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