"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl at work

sam21

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Hi, I work from 9 am to 6 pm, and every morning I'm alone in the office with a girl that's pretty ok. Our relationship is kind of polite, in the surface.

Well... it came to my mind that it would really rock to have sex with her in the office every morning before the bosses came along. And I have some hope because I read that girls like having sex at work.

Anyway we don't talk much to each other, we have some "kino" when we met every morning and that's it... we are also in different rooms.

So... what should be my first steps? It's not an easy situation, but if she wants it too... it would be worth to give it a shot.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SELF-MASTERY

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If anything you would have a good story even if you lose your job.
 

blinkwatt

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If you work in the same office that is a big no fly zone. Too many akward things could happen.
 
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