"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl at work

sam21

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Hi, I work from 9 am to 6 pm, and every morning I'm alone in the office with a girl that's pretty ok. Our relationship is kind of polite, in the surface.

Well... it came to my mind that it would really rock to have sex with her in the office every morning before the bosses came along. And I have some hope because I read that girls like having sex at work.

Anyway we don't talk much to each other, we have some "kino" when we met every morning and that's it... we are also in different rooms.

So... what should be my first steps? It's not an easy situation, but if she wants it too... it would be worth to give it a shot.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SELF-MASTERY

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If anything you would have a good story even if you lose your job.
 

blinkwatt

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If you work in the same office that is a big no fly zone. Too many akward things could happen.
 
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