"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl at work

sam21

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Hi, I work from 9 am to 6 pm, and every morning I'm alone in the office with a girl that's pretty ok. Our relationship is kind of polite, in the surface.

Well... it came to my mind that it would really rock to have sex with her in the office every morning before the bosses came along. And I have some hope because I read that girls like having sex at work.

Anyway we don't talk much to each other, we have some "kino" when we met every morning and that's it... we are also in different rooms.

So... what should be my first steps? It's not an easy situation, but if she wants it too... it would be worth to give it a shot.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SELF-MASTERY

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If anything you would have a good story even if you lose your job.
 

blinkwatt

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If you work in the same office that is a big no fly zone. Too many akward things could happen.
 
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