Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl at work

crossboss

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There is this girl at work who I think likes me. She started out the first day touching me, so I started touching her back. Eventually I was like what the hell, and grabbed her on the ass. She has also touched me on the ass too. Every day I see her she seems to want to touch me. Touch me a lot.

However, I found out she has a fiance. Yet she smiles and touches. So what should I do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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KontrollerX

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Well there's an old phrase that says "Don't dip your pen in the company ink" and I tend to agree with it but go ahead and progress this thing with her if you want.

Just for sex though.

A chick that has a fiancee and is fvcking around with other guys is probably Histrionic or Borderline Personality Disordered and even if she doesn't have either of those personality disorders she is showing you her true character right now so you can be sure the cheating she is doing on her fiancee with you will happen to you if you take her from her fiancee because this is the type of person she is.

Which is to say not real relationship material.

So yeah have a fling if you want just be aware that its not a good idea to do so with a chick you work with as if things go south they can get really bad and awkward at work for you.
 

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Good point.

Yeah, she's not bad looking. However, risking her cheating on me is not worth it. I also wouldn't want work to go wrong.
 

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I know a girl at work who is touchy feely towards me. Especially when intoxicated at a bar. I haven't returned the kino because she is related to senior management. So I have not reached any conclusions.
 
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