"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl at work

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There is this girl at work who I think likes me. She started out the first day touching me, so I started touching her back. Eventually I was like what the hell, and grabbed her on the ass. She has also touched me on the ass too. Every day I see her she seems to want to touch me. Touch me a lot.

However, I found out she has a fiance. Yet she smiles and touches. So what should I do?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well there's an old phrase that says "Don't dip your pen in the company ink" and I tend to agree with it but go ahead and progress this thing with her if you want.

Just for sex though.

A chick that has a fiancee and is fvcking around with other guys is probably Histrionic or Borderline Personality Disordered and even if she doesn't have either of those personality disorders she is showing you her true character right now so you can be sure the cheating she is doing on her fiancee with you will happen to you if you take her from her fiancee because this is the type of person she is.

Which is to say not real relationship material.

So yeah have a fling if you want just be aware that its not a good idea to do so with a chick you work with as if things go south they can get really bad and awkward at work for you.
 
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Good point.

Yeah, she's not bad looking. However, risking her cheating on me is not worth it. I also wouldn't want work to go wrong.
 
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I know a girl at work who is touchy feely towards me. Especially when intoxicated at a bar. I haven't returned the kino because she is related to senior management. So I have not reached any conclusions.
 
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