“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl at work won't leave me alone

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Hey, I've read another post on here recently that seems to cover the same issue, though mine is slightly different.

A girl at work - who I have not actively persued in any way - has asked me out three times on facebook. First couple if times a feigned misunderstanding the message and assuming she meant the whole office go out (this doesn't wok by the way, she just asked me out again, telling me i'd misunderstood!). The next time I told her I didn't dates girl at work (rubbish) and that seemed to put her off.

Since then I've been nice to her as I didn't want it to be awkward in the office. Then, this week, she's now sent my ANOTHER message saying how she feels a connection between us blah blah blah and just cause we work together it shouldn't matter. I ignored the message (as she'd asked me to if I wasn't interested) and she then put a status update talking about how she'd had her heart ripped out. She didn't name me but everyone at work knows the score so will put two and two together.

Uually this wouldn't bother me but 1. It's my work life this is affecting and 2. She ain't getting the message.

Any ideas?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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as she'd asked me to if I wasn't interested

Should have said you're not interested if you want nothing to do with her.

Just flat out reject her.. If that doesn't work she's a crazy or extremely attracted to you. I have a similar situation. Some 5 I work with is practically in love with me.. Even lies about not having a BF to me. I straight up ignore her and rejected her at least 3 times and she still keeps coming onto me..

Some girls want you more by you rejecting them. Yours doesn't seem all that crazy though. Just desperate
 
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Or file for sexual harassment. Isn't that what them ladies do to us?
 
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I'm kind of curious what she looks like. Would this be a problem if she looked like Meagan Fox?
 
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Of course, I would treat this whole thing rather differently if she looked like Megan Fox.

As it stands it's more like Michael J Fox. And I'm talking as he is now, not even that Back to the Future era!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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