jnMissouri
Master Don Juan
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Long story short, my female friend at work (girl A) took me out for a lunch with our mutual colleague who is her friend, an attractive single female (girl B). I later realized it was a lunch date of sorts so I started flirting with girl B.
Next thing you know, she got my number from her friend and texts me a few days later. We texted back and forth a bit. I got busy so I had to arrange a date a week out or so.
Well that was today. She pinged me to see if I was still up for a few drinks but I had already left for the day. Note, she responds with basically the same thing that I say each time I text her. If I say I have been busy, she will text me back that she has been busy too, etc. So I told her I already left for the day and that I'm under the weather. She tells me the same thing (yet she had just texted me minutes prior asking about a few drinks....).
There is obvious interest. I'm tempted to respond back with either:
A) Because she is such a good friend, next time she is tired and hungry I will stop by her place and cook dinner for her....I'm basically using a bit of game to say friends first/before she can but also sending a mixed signal since I'm inviting myself over for dinner...
B) I can say she is probably tired because she was up all night thinking of me, haha...
C) Wait and text her another day about drinks.
D) _______________________________________________
I worry if I say friends (David DeAngelo technique) she will respond with the same. But I'm hopeful that I'm sending mixed signals, moving two steps forward, one step back, etc. Or I may just be killing the tension.
Thoughts?
Next thing you know, she got my number from her friend and texts me a few days later. We texted back and forth a bit. I got busy so I had to arrange a date a week out or so.
Well that was today. She pinged me to see if I was still up for a few drinks but I had already left for the day. Note, she responds with basically the same thing that I say each time I text her. If I say I have been busy, she will text me back that she has been busy too, etc. So I told her I already left for the day and that I'm under the weather. She tells me the same thing (yet she had just texted me minutes prior asking about a few drinks....).
There is obvious interest. I'm tempted to respond back with either:
A) Because she is such a good friend, next time she is tired and hungry I will stop by her place and cook dinner for her....I'm basically using a bit of game to say friends first/before she can but also sending a mixed signal since I'm inviting myself over for dinner...
B) I can say she is probably tired because she was up all night thinking of me, haha...
C) Wait and text her another day about drinks.
D) _______________________________________________
I worry if I say friends (David DeAngelo technique) she will respond with the same. But I'm hopeful that I'm sending mixed signals, moving two steps forward, one step back, etc. Or I may just be killing the tension.
Thoughts?
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