"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girl at work - close encounter

Albatross953

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I have to say, since finding this site some of this stuff really works. The stuff I have read about NC and frame is really helpful. Honestly they should teach this stuff in boy scouts! It would save a lot of AFCs from being created.

Just a quick story about something thats happened to me. Since I have applied this stuff, everyone has noticed a change in me. A lot of women I knew before don't like it. I say great!

I was out for a drink with some work people - I know don't sh*t where I eat! and found myself alone with an HB7 who is recently separated. I showed total confidence with her, even though she is very entitled and sh*t tests everything and everyone. I was simply acting cool, and she lays this huge kiss on me. Like she was checking my vitals with her tongue. It was great except I am not interested. In the weeks since she has pursued me constantly texts, emails, offers to go for coffee during the day. People at work have noticed, and I am not exactly single so I just play it cool. Now as she has started to realize she can't have me, she is telling people at the office that I hit on her and she turned me down.

I don't really care, but I just wanted to say its amazing. Keep the frame on what you want, be the prize, don't kiss her rear and some girls will completely lose it. I could literally drive to her apartment and probably bang her anytime I want. Every conversation we have she turns to sex. Its awesome.

And the best part? I change jobs shortly, so if I need her its open season..lol.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yesterday was the last day on the job. She must have texted me twenty times last night:)
 
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