"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

girl at work - close encounter

Albatross953

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 5, 2011
Messages
684
Reaction score
100
Age
54
Location
ontario
I have to say, since finding this site some of this stuff really works. The stuff I have read about NC and frame is really helpful. Honestly they should teach this stuff in boy scouts! It would save a lot of AFCs from being created.

Just a quick story about something thats happened to me. Since I have applied this stuff, everyone has noticed a change in me. A lot of women I knew before don't like it. I say great!

I was out for a drink with some work people - I know don't sh*t where I eat! and found myself alone with an HB7 who is recently separated. I showed total confidence with her, even though she is very entitled and sh*t tests everything and everyone. I was simply acting cool, and she lays this huge kiss on me. Like she was checking my vitals with her tongue. It was great except I am not interested. In the weeks since she has pursued me constantly texts, emails, offers to go for coffee during the day. People at work have noticed, and I am not exactly single so I just play it cool. Now as she has started to realize she can't have me, she is telling people at the office that I hit on her and she turned me down.

I don't really care, but I just wanted to say its amazing. Keep the frame on what you want, be the prize, don't kiss her rear and some girls will completely lose it. I could literally drive to her apartment and probably bang her anytime I want. Every conversation we have she turns to sex. Its awesome.

And the best part? I change jobs shortly, so if I need her its open season..lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Albatross953

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 5, 2011
Messages
684
Reaction score
100
Age
54
Location
ontario
Yesterday was the last day on the job. She must have texted me twenty times last night:)
 
Top