"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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girl at work - close encounter

Albatross953

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I have to say, since finding this site some of this stuff really works. The stuff I have read about NC and frame is really helpful. Honestly they should teach this stuff in boy scouts! It would save a lot of AFCs from being created.

Just a quick story about something thats happened to me. Since I have applied this stuff, everyone has noticed a change in me. A lot of women I knew before don't like it. I say great!

I was out for a drink with some work people - I know don't sh*t where I eat! and found myself alone with an HB7 who is recently separated. I showed total confidence with her, even though she is very entitled and sh*t tests everything and everyone. I was simply acting cool, and she lays this huge kiss on me. Like she was checking my vitals with her tongue. It was great except I am not interested. In the weeks since she has pursued me constantly texts, emails, offers to go for coffee during the day. People at work have noticed, and I am not exactly single so I just play it cool. Now as she has started to realize she can't have me, she is telling people at the office that I hit on her and she turned me down.

I don't really care, but I just wanted to say its amazing. Keep the frame on what you want, be the prize, don't kiss her rear and some girls will completely lose it. I could literally drive to her apartment and probably bang her anytime I want. Every conversation we have she turns to sex. Its awesome.

And the best part? I change jobs shortly, so if I need her its open season..lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yesterday was the last day on the job. She must have texted me twenty times last night:)
 
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