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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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Girl at the gym always looking at me....so...How to pickup at the gym?

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Hello everyone.

I've noticed over the last 2 weeks at my gym there's this nice short brunette. I've see her there a few times each week. I could be mistaken, but she always seems to be looking at me when doing her sets. She doesn't seem to do this to other guys.

She also works out near me, and sort of moves onto machines close to me when I'm around. (We both do weights machines).

Last week she asked to use some weights that were next to me on the floor (but were not mine). She was right near the weights rack anyway, but she asked to use the ones near me.

So...anyway, I'd like to walk up and talk to her...but I no not what to say? How to start a conversation?

I found this...is this advice good? What would you DJ's do?

http://web.archive.org/web/20010331061929/www.askmen.com/love/player/36d_love_games.html

Thankyou.
 

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Walk up to machine she is using and pull realy funny face in the mirror with a pose flexing ya muscle in front of her to put her of her set or mirror what she doing but in realy exaggerated way.

or if you can put on that classic Arnold voice on and say "PUMP IT"YOU CAN DO ITT"NOWW"
Me and my mates usualy say this when doing bench presses, always stuffs up the set your on , cant stop laughing.

lol who knows, something funny to introduce ya self, something c&f to reflect your personality.

Or you can just go
Hi my name is Tom, whats yours ?
 

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Just go up to her one day and say something that has to do with the machine she is on or what she is doing. Just find something you can ask her that would get her to start talking about herself. Then after a few minutes of talking ask her name and introduce yourself. From then on, have some nice convos with her until you feel confident enough to ask for her number.
 

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talk to her, but don't forget to talk to other people at the gym too!
 

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That link you posted is the most horrendous thing I've ever seen. 3-4 Weeks before initiating something serious?! Are you kidding me?! WHY DO YOU NEWBIES ASK QUESTIONS THAT ARE ANSWERED IN THE BIBLE - WHY DOES THE FACT THAT ITS IN THE GYM MATTER - GOD DAMN IT ALL, I CANT STAND THIS ANYMORE
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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