"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl At Gym

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I got one of those 2 week free passes at AFF, and ive been milking it for the last 4 days :D

Anyway... Ive noticed this girl who goes to the gym the last 3 nights ive been there, She I would say is a HB 9, wearing a tight mini shorts with princess written in pink on her A$$

And ive noticed atleast 3 guys consistantly talk with her and do weights around her... AFC/ oneits friends??

Because of my newly founded DJ knowledge and my apparent shyness habit... I completely ignore her...

Im not the best looking guy, neither am I the buffest...

What baffles me is..
In recent days Ive noticed her looking my way...Last night at the weight room, I left and went to another large open room with medicine balls...I was looking into a room doin streches,
and out of the blue she walks by me and looks at the same room, then walks away. :confused:

Tonight i saw her again, atleast twice she walked by me, and at the same large room away from all the guys, I was still ignoring her, She walked right in front of me while i was exercising... then walked back to the weight room...

I don't know what to say of her, is she a AW or is she giving me IOI's

I plan on asking her a single question..Whats her name, and thats it... so i can get over my shyness problem

If you were in the same situation, what would u have done...

If your goin to say read the dj bible, I'll try but i might not have the time

thanks all
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pimp-sicle

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Originally posted by bbestar
I got one of those 2 week free passes at AFF, and ive been milking it for the last 4 days :D

Anyway... Ive noticed this girl who goes to the gym the last 3 nights ive been there, She I would say is a HB 9, wearing a tight mini shorts with princess written in pink on her A$$

And ive noticed atleast 3 guys consistantly talk with her and do weights around her... AFC/ oneits friends??

Because of my newly founded DJ knowledge and my apparent shyness habit... I completely ignore her...

Im not the best looking guy, neither am I the buffest...

What baffles me is..
In recent days Ive noticed her looking my way...Last night at the weight room, I left and went to another large open room with medicine balls...I was looking into a room doin streches,
and out of the blue she walks by me and looks at the same room, then walks away. :confused:

Tonight i saw her again, atleast twice she walked by me, and at the same large room away from all the guys, I was still ignoring her, She walked right in front of me while i was exercising... then walked back to the weight room...

I don't know what to say of her, is she a AW or is she giving me IOI's

I plan on asking her a single question..Whats her name, and thats it... so i can get over my shyness problem

If you were in the same situation, what would u have done...

If your goin to say read the dj bible, I'll try but i might not have the time

thanks all

If your not going to take the time to educate yourself on the techinques of being a DJ by at least looking over the Bible, then don't complain when you fuvk this up.

And here's a start don't ask her what her name is as your opener, that's lame.



PIMP
 

Blackdragon5095

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She giving you buying singals. My friend .... READ THE DON JUAN BIBLE !!!!

You can do real easy openers such as
Hi
Hey
Hello

Or even
How are you doing ??
What's up ??

After the opener start a topic a good topic would be about the Hurricane Katrina since that seems to be a big thing in the news lately.

Anyway you got to try man I'm telling you You got to try.

" Winners try and losers never try "

If you want to be successful then you have to try, try and try some more. GOod luck


P.S. print the DJ bible out
 

BackToTheMack

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Originally posted by bbestar
I got one of those 2 week free passes at AFF, and ive been milking it for the last 4 days :D

Anyway... Ive noticed this girl who goes to the gym the last 3 nights ive been there, She I would say is a HB 9, wearing a tight mini shorts with princess written in pink on her A$$

And ive noticed atleast 3 guys consistantly talk with her and do weights around her... AFC/ oneits friends??

Because of my newly founded DJ knowledge and my apparent shyness habit... I completely ignore her...

Im not the best looking guy, neither am I the buffest...

What baffles me is..
In recent days Ive noticed her looking my way...Last night at the weight room, I left and went to another large open room with medicine balls...I was looking into a room doin streches,
and out of the blue she walks by me and looks at the same room, then walks away. :confused:

Tonight i saw her again, atleast twice she walked by me, and at the same large room away from all the guys, I was still ignoring her, She walked right in front of me while i was exercising... then walked back to the weight room...

I don't know what to say of her, is she a AW or is she giving me IOI's

I plan on asking her a single question..Whats her name, and thats it... so i can get over my shyness problem

If you were in the same situation, what would u have done...

If your goin to say read the dj bible, I'll try but i might not have the time

thanks all
yep of a girl walks past you in a gym it means she wants you :rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mrRuckus

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ask her if she has a personal relationship with jesus.
 

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Just say "Hello, how are you?" and smile next time she walks by you. Or smile first and then say "Hello, how are you?".

She'll say something... then say,
"I'm bbestar... <insert some comment to start a conversation>"
 

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one time i went to gym cus i wanted to get really cut.
there where 3 hots chicks there and yess every guy was all over them.

however i wasn't. you see there is pretending to ignore and there is actually ignoring.

now this chick, must know u are into her, cus she's in your head and if ur DJ skillz are not up to par, she'll smell you out and spit on u.

as for me:

after a week, these girls would try anything to start conversation with me.

i picked the one i was most attracted to (i.e. the one i would love to shag senseless).

at the end of my session had a quick conversation with her, took her to my place and did what was nesscary.

made her cook dinner for me lol .... i was hungry man.
 

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Just f*ckin talk to her dude when those other guys aren't around. What do you have to lose?
 

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this is weird cause I have the same thing happening to me, theres this HB9 thats probably about 24-28 yrs old and she keeps checking me out at the gym.maybe its just cause Im kinda skinny and look like I were 17 yrs old and lift more than the rest of the guys in the gym that are way bigger than me and shes surprised or something or maybe not. But I´ll talk to her anyways even if shes older than me and nothing might happen just to gain confidence. haha yeah I also noticed that some guys are all over her helping her and letting her cut in line in the drinking fountain and doing all kinds of AFC stuff.like if they just got to an aparatus and are ready to use it, if this girls looking at them they´ll quickly get up and let her use the thing lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TubularBells28

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Couple of special considerations to take while in the gym:

NEVER and I mean NEVER try to hit on a girl with headphones on. Hell I even know of some women who wear them without playing any music just so guys won't hit on them.

Also the gym is a really iffy place to meet women if they workout with their boyfriends. After all, you really do not want to piss off that red-faced two hundred pound guy who benches about as much as your car weighs. MAKE SURE THEY AREN'T TAKEN!!!

Also, avoid the female bodybuilder types. I don't think I even have to explain this.
 
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