"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bbestar

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I got one of those 2 week free passes at AFF, and ive been milking it for the last 4 days :D

Anyway... Ive noticed this girl who goes to the gym the last 3 nights ive been there, She I would say is a HB 9, wearing a tight mini shorts with princess written in pink on her A$$

And ive noticed atleast 3 guys consistantly talk with her and do weights around her... AFC/ oneits friends??

Because of my newly founded DJ knowledge and my apparent shyness habit... I completely ignore her...

Im not the best looking guy, neither am I the buffest...

What baffles me is..
In recent days Ive noticed her looking my way...Last night at the weight room, I left and went to another large open room with medicine balls...I was looking into a room doin streches,
and out of the blue she walks by me and looks at the same room, then walks away. :confused:

Tonight i saw her again, atleast twice she walked by me, and at the same large room away from all the guys, I was still ignoring her, She walked right in front of me while i was exercising... then walked back to the weight room...

I don't know what to say of her, is she a AW or is she giving me IOI's

I plan on asking her a single question..Whats her name, and thats it... so i can get over my shyness problem

If you were in the same situation, what would u have done...

If your goin to say read the dj bible, I'll try but i might not have the time

thanks all
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by bbestar
I got one of those 2 week free passes at AFF, and ive been milking it for the last 4 days :D

Anyway... Ive noticed this girl who goes to the gym the last 3 nights ive been there, She I would say is a HB 9, wearing a tight mini shorts with princess written in pink on her A$$

And ive noticed atleast 3 guys consistantly talk with her and do weights around her... AFC/ oneits friends??

Because of my newly founded DJ knowledge and my apparent shyness habit... I completely ignore her...

Im not the best looking guy, neither am I the buffest...

What baffles me is..
In recent days Ive noticed her looking my way...Last night at the weight room, I left and went to another large open room with medicine balls...I was looking into a room doin streches,
and out of the blue she walks by me and looks at the same room, then walks away. :confused:

Tonight i saw her again, atleast twice she walked by me, and at the same large room away from all the guys, I was still ignoring her, She walked right in front of me while i was exercising... then walked back to the weight room...

I don't know what to say of her, is she a AW or is she giving me IOI's

I plan on asking her a single question..Whats her name, and thats it... so i can get over my shyness problem

If you were in the same situation, what would u have done...

If your goin to say read the dj bible, I'll try but i might not have the time

thanks all

If your not going to take the time to educate yourself on the techinques of being a DJ by at least looking over the Bible, then don't complain when you fuvk this up.

And here's a start don't ask her what her name is as your opener, that's lame.



PIMP
 

Blackdragon5095

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She giving you buying singals. My friend .... READ THE DON JUAN BIBLE !!!!

You can do real easy openers such as
Hi
Hey
Hello

Or even
How are you doing ??
What's up ??

After the opener start a topic a good topic would be about the Hurricane Katrina since that seems to be a big thing in the news lately.

Anyway you got to try man I'm telling you You got to try.

" Winners try and losers never try "

If you want to be successful then you have to try, try and try some more. GOod luck


P.S. print the DJ bible out
 

BackToTheMack

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Originally posted by bbestar
I got one of those 2 week free passes at AFF, and ive been milking it for the last 4 days :D

Anyway... Ive noticed this girl who goes to the gym the last 3 nights ive been there, She I would say is a HB 9, wearing a tight mini shorts with princess written in pink on her A$$

And ive noticed atleast 3 guys consistantly talk with her and do weights around her... AFC/ oneits friends??

Because of my newly founded DJ knowledge and my apparent shyness habit... I completely ignore her...

Im not the best looking guy, neither am I the buffest...

What baffles me is..
In recent days Ive noticed her looking my way...Last night at the weight room, I left and went to another large open room with medicine balls...I was looking into a room doin streches,
and out of the blue she walks by me and looks at the same room, then walks away. :confused:

Tonight i saw her again, atleast twice she walked by me, and at the same large room away from all the guys, I was still ignoring her, She walked right in front of me while i was exercising... then walked back to the weight room...

I don't know what to say of her, is she a AW or is she giving me IOI's

I plan on asking her a single question..Whats her name, and thats it... so i can get over my shyness problem

If you were in the same situation, what would u have done...

If your goin to say read the dj bible, I'll try but i might not have the time

thanks all
yep of a girl walks past you in a gym it means she wants you :rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mrRuckus

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ask her if she has a personal relationship with jesus.
 

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Just say "Hello, how are you?" and smile next time she walks by you. Or smile first and then say "Hello, how are you?".

She'll say something... then say,
"I'm bbestar... <insert some comment to start a conversation>"
 

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one time i went to gym cus i wanted to get really cut.
there where 3 hots chicks there and yess every guy was all over them.

however i wasn't. you see there is pretending to ignore and there is actually ignoring.

now this chick, must know u are into her, cus she's in your head and if ur DJ skillz are not up to par, she'll smell you out and spit on u.

as for me:

after a week, these girls would try anything to start conversation with me.

i picked the one i was most attracted to (i.e. the one i would love to shag senseless).

at the end of my session had a quick conversation with her, took her to my place and did what was nesscary.

made her cook dinner for me lol .... i was hungry man.
 

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Just f*ckin talk to her dude when those other guys aren't around. What do you have to lose?
 

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this is weird cause I have the same thing happening to me, theres this HB9 thats probably about 24-28 yrs old and she keeps checking me out at the gym.maybe its just cause Im kinda skinny and look like I were 17 yrs old and lift more than the rest of the guys in the gym that are way bigger than me and shes surprised or something or maybe not. But I´ll talk to her anyways even if shes older than me and nothing might happen just to gain confidence. haha yeah I also noticed that some guys are all over her helping her and letting her cut in line in the drinking fountain and doing all kinds of AFC stuff.like if they just got to an aparatus and are ready to use it, if this girls looking at them they´ll quickly get up and let her use the thing lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Couple of special considerations to take while in the gym:

NEVER and I mean NEVER try to hit on a girl with headphones on. Hell I even know of some women who wear them without playing any music just so guys won't hit on them.

Also the gym is a really iffy place to meet women if they workout with their boyfriends. After all, you really do not want to piss off that red-faced two hundred pound guy who benches about as much as your car weighs. MAKE SURE THEY AREN'T TAKEN!!!

Also, avoid the female bodybuilder types. I don't think I even have to explain this.
 
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